Byron’s Visit to Baruch

Byron will be attending Baruch in Fall of 2025. He visited the campus on Saturday and had a great time. 

With the student body president 

With the Baruch College President. 

Byron is Back Home

Byron is doing very very well.  He is on the two medicines, Briviact 15 ml and Vimpat 20 ml, both liquids. 

Byron has been admitted to Baruch for the Fall 2025! Tomorrow he goes back to the city for an all day new admissions gathering. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Testing a new EEG

 Byron is participating in a test of a new EEG technology that works with the smart phone. The little black squares on his forehead are recording data (two more in the back too) and there would be no need for all the wires and glue. This would mostly be used for outpatient EEG. Byron has had many of these out patient EEGs. The patient is hooked up to all the wires and then they go home with all of the stuff, including the recording box, and then mail it back. These little black squares would now be all that is required.  Very exciting! 

The doctor we spoke to yesterday is Dr. Christiana.  His bio is here  

https://nyulangone.org/doctors/1336595628/andrew-christiana

It looks like Byron will go home on Thursday morning once he is completely off the Keppra.  Apparently the medicine changes are usually done in the hospital.  If we had to switch meds at home the process can take a month. But here they can do it in a few days.  So I guess our time here was not a waste. 

Still haven’t seen Dr Akman but I understand she is very busy -   the next time we see her may be in her office . 

No Tests

It's been a strange two days.  When we were admitted to the hospital on Sunday, the idea was to have the SPECT test on Tuesday after weaning Byron off the seizure medications. This was the plan we discussed with Dr. Akman last month in her office.  She was the one who booked the hospital stay to do so. 

This morning, a totally new doctor came into the room and told us that he had consulted with Dr. Akman and they decided that the SPECT test was not necessary.  He went on to say that now that Byron has had a full month of total seizure control with medications, that surgery would not be under discussion until/when/if the seizures returned while on medication.  He did say that he can tell with 100% certainty that the seizures were coming from the Pariatel Lobe on the right (and not from the "good"side) and he's not sure how much more information the SPECT test would give.  

He was amazed that Byron had gone off medications at all, even after the surgery.   

Sidebar- I know epilepsy is an inexact science, and there are surgery doctors and medication doctors and many variations in between.   Dr. Akman had been, while at Columbia, a very pro-surgery doctor believing that if seizures can be controlled with surgery then it was a vaialble option.  Surgery is only considered, however, when three or more medications fail.  This was the case with Byron.

The new doctor told us today that now that Byron has seizure control with medicines, no further interventions should be considered at this time.  

Well - did we need to come into the hospital to hear that?  We could have had a call.

Anyhoo - we did not see Dr. Akman today.  We are all coming to terms with the fact that maybe this is the new normal.  That Byron will need to be on epilepsy meds for life. 

We would love for surgeries to be in the past.  If Byron can have this kind of seizure control, meaning complete seizure freedom while on meds, then maybe it's enough  - even good.  This new Dr. (no name I can remember) went on to say that Byron's seizures are controllable now with medications BECAUSE of the surgeries.  So they were a very good thing to have done. 

I didn't love this guy.  But he did seem to know what he was talking about.  I look forward to hearing all this from Dr. Akman tomorrow.  I'd also love to hear why she still thought it was a good idea for us to come to the hospital.

The one silver lining to Byron being in the hospital, is that we found out from this doctor that there is a medication in the Keppra family that is new.  This drug does not have the rage issues that Keppra can cause, and does cause with Byron.  It's not rage exactly with him but extreme crankiness and mood swings. The Dr. asked Byron if he would like to try it while he was in the hospital.  In the hospital they can wean from one to the other in a quicker way.   Byron was excited to try it so we are going ahead. 

Back in School

Byron is back in school and life slowly returns to "normal".   He takes his large quantity of meds every day but other than that he seems completely fine.  

He could not handle a full day at school or multiple courses at once, but the one hour per day three days a week seems to be ok for now.  He is taking two college level courses and they are working him hard.  But he is trying to keep up and the teachers and school admin have been wonderful. 

Monday he goes back to NYC to see his surgeon for a follow up. Then in April he goes back in the hospital for about a week to see what is going on with the seizures.  The seizures are controlled right now but his epilepsy doctor really wants to see where they are coming from in the brain.  So they monitor him while weaning the meds and then when they see a seizure they record it on the SPECT machine.  

This child....every mother of a child with a complex medical diagnosis says their kid is the bravest on earth.  But mine really is :)    He does not seem depressed or ill-affected by the last few weeks of constant medical attention and new issues.  

And we have tons of great support.  Family and friends have been truly wonderful.  Byron's surgeon, Dr. Harter,  called yesterday just to check in.  The head of the NYC Hydrocephalus Association has called me twice just to chat.  And, as always, I pray and meditate to keep myself nourished and refreshed. 

So for now....dare I say it...all is good!

Byron’s meds and vitamins.  The doctors have prescribed magnesium, CoQ10, and Riboflavin for the headaches. B6 is for mood changes from the Keppra. 

P.S.  I always forget there is a comment function on this blog.  People say it is hard to comment so I don't always check.  Thank you to all who have so beautifully commented. I have read them all and am so touched by your kind words and compassion.   These gorgeous words from my nephew:

"Byron is a diamond: brilliant, multifaceted, unbreakable: forged from the stuff of life placed under the most intense pressure, and polished with years and years and years of loving care. Every time the sandpaper-rough hand of adversity took a pass at Byron, he has just come out burnished even brighter in the end. Even when cloven clean open, each cleave just allows his true form to emerge more clearly.

What a gem of a young gentleman.

What a precious family.

You shine like the stars."

Home in NYC

About ten years ago, we decided we needed to have an apartment in New York City near a good hospital. In this way we had a place to stay whenever Byron was admitted.   The real estate market was still pretty soft so we got a good price on a one bedroom in Hudson Heights, just north of the GW Bridge.  It's really easy to get to from upstate and has been a wonderful place for us.  

The apartment is very near to Morgan Stanley Children's Hospital on 165th street, which is where Byron was being treated.  Now that the hospital is in the 30s on the East side it's a little more challenging for us.  But I was so grateful that we could just take an Uber home after being discharged yesterday.  Byron would have been very uncomfortable with a long car ride. 

Today, Byron is not having headaches per se, just lots of varying pressure depending on how he is sitting.  The doctors said that this new shunt might require small adjustments going forward.  He said "Expect two or three adjustments".   But he said that could be in the doctor’s office so that is good!

Bryon is on a very high flow setting right now.  The shunt before was not draining enough. This one is draining much more.   I hope we can hit that sweet spot where he has just the right amount of fluid draining. 

Byron this AM watching his favorite shows. 

Byron is back!

 It’s an amazing feeling when you get your child back. Byron has been about 25% of himself (personality wise) and in chronic pain since the shunt was first put in. One can be forgiven if this brings on a certain kind of stressful despair.  The only time he was himself was in the morning. The rest of the day he would speak with his eyes half open and holding his head. This constant pain cycle was what brought us here two days ago. 

Today! After the surgery he is almost 100% himself. He’s chatty, alert and his humor is back. 

The surgeon explained that shunt placement with hemispherectomy is very very tricky.  The brain doesn’t drain the same way because there is just so much fluid.  A typical case of hydrocephalus can be pretty straight forward.  But not with Byron. They explained a lot of setting numbers that I didn’t understand but they said that the initial shunt was under draining and it had been set way too low (for Byron), perhaps ok for someone else. So the pressure was building up throughout the day causing the problems. They put a second valve in and have it draining fairly high right now. And he’s back!  No headaches, no pain. And even no seizures (still on the three meds but they are still working). 

The doctor said there will likely be more setting changes in the coming months but these can be done as an outpatient. 

His blood pressure is high right now so they are monitoring this but boy oh boy am I a happy momma!  One more night in the hospital and then home. 

Out of Surgery

All went very well.  

They came this morning to wake us at 5:30 am to take off the EEG leads and to bathe him before surgery. They have all these cool disposable bathing things now.  They have this cap that they put on his head that washes the hair without water.  Then they do sponge baths with these really large wipes.  So much disposable stuff but certainly easier on the patient.  

He is in recovery now but should be back in the room soon.  They are likely going to keep him overnight for observation.  They replaced the shunt valve with a larger one that should drain better.  The goal for today will be to make sure he is more lucid with no headaches.  Fingers crossed!

Byron in Surgery

Byron has gone in to surgery to have his shunt looked at more throughly.  As he was leaving the floor, one of the male nurses pulled me aside and said  - "I just want you to know, we see a lot of teens up here.  Your son is not just polite but he makes eye contact.  You can have a conversation with him.  It's rare.  It just shows he was raised well."  I was very touched by that. 

Last night they put EEG leads on Byron for the thousandth time in Byron's short life.  Before they started they asked - "Is this the first time for an EEG for you?"  Byron and I both laughed.   I showed her some of the following pictures.